Mindsin - pt. 5 (back to basics)

[25yearsmlc]

I had a wonderful weekend so far with the kids. Last night I met up with my FIL and my son at his school for the Halloween bash. He had such an awesome time there. Saturday, we slept in and I took them out to brunch, then my son's soccer. After that, I took the kids to my friend's house warming party. They had a blast and so did I. My friend had a billiards table and I played for the first time in years! We were there for about 5 hours then we headed over to my in-laws for some coffee, hot cocoa (for the kids) and some good conversation.

GOOD STUFF^^^^. Keep it up for THEM and for you...and not anyone else


My W didn't call or text me yesterday or today - not even to talk to the kids or even ask how they were doing. She just came home a few minutes ago. She was with the OM since Friday afternoon.

Not relevant. Leave it alone! Let her work herself out of this in her time....how on earth does your monitoring it help you at all??

I really don't care where they went or what they were doing.

I think this is the first time I can truly say that and be honest to myself about it. I feel I'm taking positive steps forward.

If you don't care about it, then stop talking about it and stop thinking about it.

I'd be a lot more convinced of your honesty about it, if you stopped focusing on it.