4. I will prepare a suitcase with all her stuff remaining in the apartment. There's no reason to store it here, as if it's her parents' home or some sort of storage (cake-eating). Also, this should be the end of asking me to send her random stuff every week. It's heart-wrenching and it prevents me from feeling home in my own apartment.
My general message, and I might verbalize it to her if need be, is that she's no longer alone in charge of the separation. I'm separating too. I don't want it, but I need to take care of myself. Having her stuff at home, her daily visits for the stroller, her set the rules alone without explanation, etc. it just doesn't work. I'm afraid of the confrontation, but I'm detached enough (today) that I wouldn't mind a bit of it if it helps me set boundaries. I'll try to show her that it's not against her, it's for me.
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"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
