"It's just too early (6 weeks) after she left and she's still in the fog."
See, you rely so much on this being your W's fog. She had legitimate reasons to leave you. But you still think it's all because of her "fog".
"There are a few boundary-settings discussions that I want to have."
Like what? Think about it this way. You mistreated her through your anger and put downs. Do you really think she cares about YOUR boundaries? That's all you've been doing is thinking of yourself and how YOU can benefit. She has to see a way that SHE can benefit.
"I think I'll have to convince her of my good intentions."
You don't have to "convince" her of anything. That's more control on your part. Keep showing her that you're a changed person and REALLY change. Right now your attitude is not showing that.
You think that I'm misinterpreting things, etc. but I've been on here long enough to see PLENTY of posters like you. You have a while before your changes become permanent.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
