I wouldn't use the term "flaws" though...imo, when you are in a M, you each teach the other how to react to you, and when the love is there, you do want to please your partner, so you overlook somethings, adapt to responding in ways that meet your needs as well, usually based on some deeply rooted fear...for me it was abandonment.
Wow, thanks for that T. It's abandonment for me too.
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