Thanks for responding Mozza,

Oh, I know this process is long and tedious. I have been at it for 16 months now but DB for only a year. W just moved out 5 weeks ago that is the new twist to my Sitch.

You are correct in what you say about having to accept that we can't make them understand.

I am just in a moment of weakness currently. It will pass but I sometimes feel like, I should not be all forthcoming and pursuing, but at least drop a friendly "hey how ya doin" kind of email.

She was nice enough to email me about the death of a friends Baby. I knew about this situation somewhat before she contacted me but didn't know that it turned tragic. I responded very friendly and caring and kept on point but that was all. I was/am skeptical that that email sole purpose was to inform me of the tragedy but that is coming from the fact that I can't trust my W at the moment.

I guess if she wants to contact me she will


Me 47/W 34
T 16 M 13
No kids
BD 6/2013
W asked that I move out 6/2013
I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013
separate beds not much talking
Served D Complaint 5/2014
W moved out 9/27/2014