Thanks Nitty, I really do need to look into all this more. I really never thought I would ever need to know about that kind of stuff but I do now! One of the hard parts of being Catholic, so many "rules' that are really outdated and don't take changes in society into account. I know a few Jesuit priests that are liberal and understand when certain circumstances are not the fault of anyone and are willing to "bend' certain rules. I guess that's something I will need to think about in the future.
