You are handling this well .. MLC is bad enough then ya toss the Holidays in .. .seems they want the cake eat session, forget about all the issues during that time, have us put on our acting suits for the family .. then after we know what we are in for ... back on the rollercoaster to Limbo-ville... lol .. and ugh at the same time.
Seems to me .. just my opinion, yes you need to think of you, seems your H wants his holiday cake eat fest, you called it .. Divorce happily ever after? I think he does not want to lose you, but is in the MLC tunnel filled with fog and his logic is .. he can D .. figure out his chit, and marry you like nothing happened .. like you will wait forever, even typing this I feel like I am in the same boat, but I am atleast woking on my poker face. I am personally at a loss on how the Holidays will go, but I do believe we need to put our needs first here.
