Originally Posted By: zed
So my W keeps sending me links to these hand picked articles about how people are happier after splitting and their children are alright. She asks me what I think and if it helps. I haven't said anything back. All these articles are when both people want the separation. I DO NOT this separation. I believe it is bad for the kids. I have told her this many of times. I do not want to tell her again as I know she will get upset and it will not get anywhere. I guess I will just keep avoiding the situation for now

More eggshells.....

Why don't you just be honest with her? In a nice way, of course.

"Thanks, but I really don't need you to send me these."

Then hit delete.


Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.