Thanks Tad, Right after B-day I coudn't listen to music AT ALL. Seemed like every song had some kind of meaning that hit home. Since then it's gotten better but I do have to be careful as to what I listen to. As for FB...I really have avoided going on and looking at what my W is up to. I was never big on FB and saw it as one of the reasons W was always so unhappy with her life. She would read other peoples posts and think she was "missing out" when she really wasn't. Thing is my W isn't really doing anything that bothers me. It was that post just made me realize that she has no idea how what she has done has hurt me, her kids, anyone. I just don't get how normal people become so awful in MLC!