Also struggling with Halloween. i have D2 tomorrow, and I'm taking her to my cousin's neighborhood where they are throwing a big family party and all of the kids will TOT together. I felt like I couldn't exclude WAW (who recently said she intends to date others) because as you said, it's a kids holiday and D2 will surely love mommy there, and WAW spent 3 weeks finding the perfect outfit on etsy for what D2 said she wanted to be. Oh well. I will be friendly but not overly friendly.
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23