afraid I have waited too long #4

[nit84]

I haven't had this feeling in a long time.

For some reason at work I got this overwhelming feeling of wanting to e-mail my W.

She moved out almost 5 weeks ago and has e-mailed me twice in that timespan. Each time I waited about 12-18 hrs before responding in short answer form. I have not initiated any contact with her.

I don't even know what I would say other than "I hope you are settling in to the place you have moved to ok and I hope our Cat is fine."

Pretty lame reasons for contacting her so that is why I am fighting this urge.

I don't want to give the impression that I am pursuing her. Just would like to know that she and our cat are ok.

I can't say that I don't miss my W but I am getting along doing for myself just fine. I knew I would be ok but that doesn't erase the fact that I still want my M to work.

I was never requested not to contact her after she moved out I just haven't and haven't even wanted to until today.

Is it wise to maybe reach out to her in a very small well thought out e-mail or just continue on like I have been for the last 5 weeks?

I could really us some advice on this. Thanks!!