fthnluv - Just FYI...my H has done the same, I'm sure, this past year. Spent a great deal of OUR money on OW and her kids. My attorney told me they can get hold of all the credit card statements that would show what he spent (and he charges just about EVERYTHING), and I would be entitled to half of all that - because it's 'our' money. I don't plan to go that far, but I think it can be done. Check it out...


Me 53, XH 57
M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids
BD June '13
H moved out July '13
Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14
H filed for D Nov. '14
D March '15