Thx Wet, LT, and Nitty. Helpful advice, for sure. I know my mantra: don't sign ANYTHING until attorney reviews it.

For the moment, since he still doesn't know that I have now seen this e-mail from him, I'm just going to wait and see what he does next. With a history of major procrastination, it could take another few days before he does anything. He said he would re-send it, when I told him I had not seen it -- that was a week ago. I'm curious to see if he (1) does that, and (2) makes some changes to it!

Had dinner with 3 fellow Divorce-Care graduates. Always good to touch base every couple of weeks. I am the only one now who is not divorced. Weird - they are moving on with their lives, and all doing well. I keep looking to them to keep me going. They have all been through so much. They inspire me -- as do all of you, too!

Me 53, XH 57
M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids
BD June '13
H moved out July '13
Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14
H filed for D Nov. '14
D March '15