Do yourself a favor and take what you can while he is feeling "generous".
Seriously considering it. As I do more research in CA it is generous (with the exception of the length of spousal support which is negotiable)
Originally Posted By: Matt165
I have a feeling that he has been doing a lot of traveling with OW and spending of money on her and he wants to hide that, that is why he doesn't want you seeing "his" accounts (PA and CA are community property states and they are as much YOUR accounts as they are his and the business is as much yours as his. My W lost sight of this as well). There is no way he won't have to disclose the amount of funds in ALL the accounts as it's half yours until you say it's not and a judge signs off on that.
Yes, I think the same thing. There is likely a bunch of stuff that he did with her or spent on her that he does not want me to see. Frankly, it seems like that is water under the bridge, I can't get it back, right? I'm considering telling him to just give me statements with the balances for the last 2 years so that I don't have to see the transactions but I at least know how much money he has/had... H might go for that.
Originally Posted By: Matt165
MLCers don't think like normal people, remember don't believe anything they say and half of what you see!
Such a truth to remember...
Originally Posted By: Matt165
I will say that you definitely need a lawyer.
I have retained a lawyer in PA, trying to avoid the costs of retaining a CA one too...
Hope you are doing better Matt. I have a bunch of kid stuff to do tonight but I'll try to catch up on your thread later.
Me- 40 H- 41 S8, D5, S4 M 19 y T 23 Bomb drop 6/2013 H asked for/filed for D 9/2014 22 yo OW discovered 9/19/14 they're engaged and living together
