Try thinking of it not in terms of just your marriage.. what about relationships with others? Your D? Friends? Colleagues? What changes can you practice now so that your next romantic relationship (whomever it is with) will be better.

Because at the end of the day, whoever you are with next (your H or someone new) will still have some sh!t. We all do. No one is perfect.

That's the faulty thinking our WAH have... they think it's because we are just not a good match. Instead of a lack of skills (which can be learned and improved). And that's why people get divorced multiple times.


Me 38 H 40
D 3
T 8 M 6
BD 10/2013