Hey Maybell,

Instead of saying 'Stop thinking about him"---

(Like "Don't think about the polka-dotted talking Octopus on the dining room table, right smack in the mashed potatoes.")

---- have something else lined up.
Like on a record album. (You remember those, right?)

Pick up the stylus and put it on another track.

"What is my next GAL activity? How can I make the most of it?"
And
"What can I do for ME today?"

This is my #1 go-to for changing my thoughts.

And yeah. What would you do with H that you wouldn't do by yourself?

Maybe DO THAT exact thing.
It would be pushing your boundaries--in a good way.

Then think of all the things you can do that H would never do.

Like going swing dancing with the Goat Gal. wink


---(G)GGG


Me 54 Him 63
M 23 T 29
0 Kids
Funny Farm of Rescues
12/12 OW--
5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied
9/13 Proof OW: ENDED
2/14 Got D papers on my BD
I kicked him out for my sanity
9/14 He wants to "talk"?