could you outline some of the key things you did to fight for her, and perhaps which one(s) you think were the most crucial to your success? Thanks.
My wife told me after we reconciled that the most important things were:
1. The way I fought for our marriage and our family;
2. The loss of my friendship while she was having her affair (and I told her I had absolutely zero intention of being her friend, much less her BEST friend, if she decided to end our marriage like this, by having an affair and lying to everyone about it);
3. The disapproval of her parents and our adult daughters, to whom I exposed her affair*
*(exposure is NOT advocated by DB/DR; I'm just answering mindsin's question).
