Sandi. No Dbing is the only option I have. My point is in our R I have always being the 'Rock'. I have always been the one she could turn to about anything. Even last week she was discussing ladies problems with me but she know she has lost that rock now and she has to turn somewhere. Her friend has plenty of his own issues but if that is all she has left to turn to then she has no choice. Only in this was iDBi g not giving her the option to return. DBi g has helped me as any individual greatly.