I too struggle with the "not being more angry" so I understand where you are coming from but agree with everyone else about not holding on to the anger.
I think what helped me be less angry was realizing my H is human and he's only doing what he feels is working for him, to make him happy. (Liam Naden books have been helpful with that!)Selfish in some ways but you have to be happy within yourself to be a better person to those around you. Also, I think many times, at least for me, we try to "make sense" of things logically, and in reality there is nothing really logical about it. IMO (and also after some reading) WASs are making decisions based on emotion not logic so all of the why's we ask will never really get answered, at least not for a long time!
Me-44 (45) H- 50 (51) M-'96
S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)
BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas) home Oct(sep rooms) (EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed) insists wants D through July 2015 no more talk of D since
