Thanks Mozza, I was tempted to ignore it but that is something I may have done in the past...or it would turn into a blowup. I did asked him this morning if he was still "pissed at me" and we had a conversation. I was able to use the "I hear what you are saying" response and we had a civilized discussion about the situation. Although I think I could have done better, it was a positive outcome.

Still trying to be patient and remember time is my friend! smile

Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since