Originally Posted By: Hrdtims
She says that she is back and forth saying it will be OK, wanting the best for our kids and me but has not seen her feelings change over the last three months.
Have you read The Five Love Languages by Gary D Chapman? It is often recommended on this board and I'm halfway through it. (It's likely where sandi2 took the concept of the "love tank" above) I've already learned a lot about how I can show love in ways that my partner will understand. The premise of the books is that people speak different languages and that you need to speak your spouse's so that she can hear you. By the sound of your sitch, it might make a difference.

Last edited by Mozza; 10/29/14 02:45 PM.

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