It is true that statistically most of the stories you read here don't end in a reconciliation. What we don't know about are the people who stop posting, or those that never actually start posting...
While the numbers don't look pretty, personally, I don't believe that you should let that deter you from whatever course of action you choose.
DB is good for rebuilding yourself and your life, whether that includes reconciliation or not.
You can learn things that will help you if you reconcile or if you don't.
I know that doesn't sound very encouraging right now, and I am sorry for that, but down the road, it will make more sense.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
