Need Help!!!

[errod]

I am so confused. On days I don't bring up the upcoming separation things seem fine. But whenever the separation comes up I get the line that I love you but I am not in love. She then says she needs to find that spark again.

I know a lot of the advice given is to detach but I feel being detached is what caused this situation. W tells me I always put other things in front of her and that is why she lost the feelings.

I am going to give an example on why I get confused she will tell me we need to separate to see if we miss each other. But then last night for example I went to school until 8:30 and when I came home she was sitting at the kitchen table and had dinner for me.

Another example we always watch football together on Sundays. Last weekend she was going to go out with a girlfriend to a handbag bingo event. That morning I was at church and w sent me a text saying she is going to go out for coffee with her girlfriend as soon as I get home so she would be home in time to spend Sunday watching football with me.

Here is my opinion and I want to hear what others think but I think I need to continue to be there and persue but avoid at all costs talking about the past.