For me, to remain standing, does not mean giving up on life even when the D does happen. I figure I will continue on my path with or with out her. If I meet someone, then her loss. If she chooses to catch up with me, then I will decide if I want to start a R with her or not.
Right now my wife also the idea that D means happiness for her. I would suggest that you should not make the D a deciding factor for you. What really counts is you and where you are on your own path.Even if he goes down the path of D, he may eventually change his mind. If he does then you can decide based on who you are at that time.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"