EA then PA with her ex

[Anaru]

STD test done - was negative
Appt again with IC tomorrow
Am moving to plan D(detach) now scheduling appt with the bank to start separating finances unilaterally, moving my salary & overdraft facility from joint account (which W have has been using with abandon to pay for beautician visits, new clothes, the usual) back to account in my name only
I read somewhere that the WS will only stop their behavior when the perceived cost becomes too high and I guess I have not made it costly enough up to now