Well, it's been a while since I've posted.... so a little update. I've just got confirmation that I'll be moving into a new rented home this weekend. I cannot wait!!! Will be great to have space for me and my D. I'll have a lot less disposable income than when living with my dad but it feels like a fresh start.
I'm continuing with my drum lessons. Really great stuff but I need some cash saved to buy my own set to practice. Wish I'd done this years ago.
As for the WAW.... not much to report. We attended our D's school for a regular meet with her teacher. Says D is a kind, generous and smart child. Doing well at school but needs to come out of her shell more. Otherwise he is confident she will progress well over the coming years.
Went to WAW's home after to discuss D going to big school next year. All pleasant. We get along fine. I still miss her though. On my way out I walked past the window as my daughter stood watching me. I gave her a silly wave and blew extravagant kisses lol. She was laughing hard. Then WAW appeared at the window to wave at me in a silly way as well. I returned my kisses.
On the way home I heard about my new house so rang D and told her. She was so excited. Then she put WAW on who seemed surprised I had got my own place....I'd kind of mentioned it before but have been keeping contact to a minimum.
At present I feel like my marriage is over. But still no name change from WAW and we are getting along fine and well. She definitely sees me looking and smelling better than ever. I will continue on this journey.
M 35 W 31 D 10 Married 3 years Together 11 Single since Nov 13 Moved out Dec 13 ILYBNILWY, 'I don't want to be a boring housewife, 'I don't fancy you any more' OM confirmed Jun 14