So. .. doing some late night thinking instead of getting my rest.
I made a bold move and removed a big wedding-related picture from the wall the other day. H was here last night, my MIL will be here today. H hasn't brought it up and I don't think he will. But on the off chance he does, I wanted to be prepared with a response if he asks about it.
How do I answer if he asks," why did you take that picture down?" the truth is that it was a painful reminder of his betrayal of his vows, and it feels fraudulent to have it displayed so prominently in our house. I should have waited until I had something to replace it with, But I didn't, and now it's done, and life goes on.
He won't ask about it, though I do sense he's pulled back a bit from the tone of his emails. But I am still curious what a response might sound like.