Sooooooo....is D21 in the college know it all phase by any chance? I think the early 20s are peak years for blaming your parents for stuff.

I guess I would thank her for the input and tell her you will share this with XW-and I would validate the 25% you agree with and also tell her the part about how you're happy that she trusts you enough to tell you these things.

I think texting lends itself to lashing.

2 Ds: 7 and 4
BD and Sep: 7/14
Divorce Final 2/16