Ah ha, so I was the funk that inspired the gratitude list Yesterday was rough but today is better. Sometimes time is the only thing that helps. I am not concerned, no...but then again usually the person themselves is the last person to be concerned. It may just be time to stop thinking about all this and analyzing, trying to figure out what else I can do better, etc., because I think my plateau is reached.
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final