Do I walk away from WAW? (2)

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Just to think out loud. i dont know if these are boundaries or not

- I dont bring alcohol home. My W has a drinking problem, this is all I can see thats currently in my power to support her getting help. its also good for me.

- I dont snoop on her phone. I have read some of her posts about our S on a private messageboard, but its been a few weeks.

- I dont ask W where she is going or when she will be back when she leaves the house. When she is out, I do not have an expectation of when she will be back, so Im not let down or inconvenienced

- I dont do Ws laundry. Typically I do about 90% of the laundry in the house. I no longer do hers, just separate it out and leave it by the washer in the basement.

- I will pick up things at the store that W requests, but I keep this relatively small. Sometimes I do buy her small things that I know she likes and is probably afraid to ask me for. I do not buy her alcohol (though i got kinda tricked into that a few weeks ago)