I'm definitely not mocking you.

I'm trying to get YOU to see for YOURSELF what you might be doing wrong. Of course, in my opinion.

There is an excellent book out there on "Boundaries" that isn't to hard to find ....

There's a very good summary of setting proper boundaries on the boards here that someone quotes, but it escapes me at the moment....


Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.