Yeah- Well about the generosity - its really not that much (we hardly have any equity in the house) and he's "giving" me all kinds of tools I will probably never use.
I know this super duper mind reading - but I think he really wants some way to come out of this looking like a good guy. He tried to get me to be the one to file for divorce 3 times. Again - more mind reading - but I think there's a big difference between "I cheated on my wife, left my family and then divorced her" and "I cheated on my wife and then she divorced me" (and got her vengeance). I think he would like to be able to say "She got everything in the divorce". Either that or its just part of his running away from his life. Basically he took his truck and his clothes.
All that being said - I will take responsibility for my own debt (I just bought a car last year) - and he should actually have to pay for that as marital debt - so when you add it all up he's not doing me any favors.
