I guess you are not wrong when you put it like that. Hmmm

I do welcome him when he comes back to the country and the time he is here is pleasant and even fun.i haven't felt like I was compromising myself for him...I thought I needed to still be more patient. That with my own life that I have made and the place I am in now, I feel strong enough to do that. But I don't want it to become the status quo nor do I expect it to be. I still see this as a fluid and moving state...one that hopefully moves forward together.

I feel like I am offering him a genuine and no expectations place to heal and figure stuff out with his family. I Certainly do not want to be taken for granted.

I really thought this would take time...do you think he should be moving closer to me much quicker?

Last edited by bustingout; 10/28/14 08:20 PM.
TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home