What if instead of allowing him to just "hang out" with you, with no strings attached, you told him you at least expected to be asked out on a proper date?
Even if you're supposedly "not working on the marriage," and even if he's not willing to "make any commitments" right now, it still seems to me like you're allowing him to have all of the benefits of a date with you (smart, beautiful female companionship, conversation, devotion, a meal? what else?) without so much as even having to ASK YOU OUT.
My wife and I beginning to "date each other" was the turning point of our sitch, really. Just wondering what would happen if you did something like this to crank it up a notch, how he might respond?
