When he really commits and it really is piercing then come the hard boundaries and conversations you're not supposed to have right now. : )
I agree with this. ^^^ My "raise the bar" comment is me wondering if there's some way Busting can incrementally turn up the heat just a notch here? See if he'll respond and take a next step?
It seems to me if she stays at status quo, so will squirrelish H.