So i talked to my kids on the phone today for the first time in a while. only a couple minutes, but well worth saying hi and telling them i miss them and love them. My oldest asked if I was going with them on Halloween, and I said that I would like to.
The W came on the phone and asked "do you want to take them?" and I replied, are you saying you don't want to go with them? I won't pester you or bother you." She said "it's not about that, we'll have to discuss that later."
I know I need to leave that alone, but what else could it possibly be about. Any insight? just to calm my nerves. I know i need to leave it and accept, but still.
