This is why you have to be cautious about what you say and to whom about the relationship. I knew if I opened my big mouth about my wife it would put some serious roadblocks to the road home. You may need to repair some of that yourself. Because if reconciliation happened tomorrow your BF now has to deal with all your peeved friends.

My friends and family know we are separated but don't know the reasons surrounding it. Only a few select, trusted people in my inner circle know the details and even then I have tried to paint my wife in the best light possible so when the time comes she can save face.

We've got to protect our partners to the bitter end, even if they are crapping on us the whole way. At least that's my opinion.

Me 47 - W 35
M 9 - T 10
2 Daughters - 7 & 9
Discovery of EA- 8/4/14
S - 8/5/15
D mentioned - 9/11/14
R & Piecing - 3/17/15
Regard one another as more important than yourselves.
- Philippians 2:3