Stop waiting for the bad. Have a plan if it happens...but don't be waiting for it. It sort of affects most people negatively. If it happens implement your plan, but why not smell the roses and enjoy the day instead of cautiously peeking around corners and expecting there to be a bee in the rose?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK