Gotcha. I guess I know what you mean but not exactly how to put it into practice. I feel like I am leading my family and W is just along for the ride. My main issue is if I should embrace my principle that I wont accept an open marriage. But I worry that its too soon for that.


M: 33
W: 33
M: 9 T: 10
3 S's: 8, 6 and 1.5
BD: 8/3/14
Living together