Moving towards mediation, need to stop limbo

[shodan]

Starsky

I totally agree. Fixing our M will take a TON of work. She is starting to realize that it takes work (based on what she has said to me). Until very recently, however, she did assume that a M was like a fairy tale. in fact, we discussed how we both can go out and find that "eros" love, but at what cost? We break up our family. I know my W does NOT want to do this.

I am pushing hard for closure. If she cannot commit make a decision, I am going to make it for her.