Raliced - Climbing Without a Rope

[Ahoy]

hi raliced -- are you and STBXH able to discuss all of the D-related issues amicably? If so, is there anything you're doing to help ease the process along? I suspect I'll be where you are in a couple of months, based on my latest update, and I really want to make it as easy as possible. When you meet are you meeting with lawyers or mediators, or just the two of you?

I applaud you for being able to recognize in the past when your perception of your situation needed to be adjusted in order for you to feel happy. It is a true skill that will carry you through the rest of your life -- and especially in situations like the one you find yourself in now.

wishing you peace.