I have a thread in newcomers, id appreciate you looking at it. ive made a fair amount of "progress" and have a lot of clarity as to my role in the Ms faltering, and how I can become a better partner. But reading your post above, I really wonder if my W is capable of doing the things you mentioned re: reconciling.
M: 33 W: 33 M: 9 T: 10 3 S's: 8, 6 and 1.5 BD: 8/3/14 Living together