Sandi has been posting some good points on this but I've not quite figured the in practice bit.

Basically she said WAW has no interest in an attachment with you emotionally or otherwise - in fact at the moment mine is DESPERATE to break all connection, to escape so she can guilt free pursue OM (and the meaningless hookups she says she wants) - what i think that means is that the more we try to be nice it just makes us look weak and needy which she won't respect.

Not quite figured out what that means at the moment for what I should do. If I don't intimate conversation at all then it just seems rude so a bit stuck on what to do. Doubt that helps but it might.


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress