Do I walk away from WAW? (2)

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Well thats what Ive been doing too. I just wonder if I've mistaken passivity for detachment. I am taking no responsibility in initiating the separation, beyond covering my own bases and looking after myself and the kids. But its brought me to this situation where I feel like she is not forced to make any decision or face any consequences.

I'm at a loss as to what to do (aside from whats already been working for me). W claims she has an "emotional connection" with OM. they clearly text all day and hang out several times a week. Should I be trying harder to "be there" for her emotionally? is acting like a distant neighbor just confusing her and pushing her away?

or should I just tell her enough is enough, that I can no longer allow this to go on and continue to respect myself?

these two courses are millions of miles apart.