Why don't you raise the bar of what you expect of him, and see if he responds to it?

Either he is capable of more or he's not. Right now, he can surely sense that his "low bar" threshold of behavior is enough to keep you circling in his life, no?


Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)