Dev, you made a good point. Awareness is the start of healing. Of course she'll spew even though she knows she has a personality disorder. Maybe she hasn't quite come to the point of identifying her spewing with her disorder. Plain as the nose on her face to everyone else but she's too close to it and possibly the personality disorder is causing the lack of connection of her obvious manifestations of the symptoms to the disorder itself.
A glimmer of hope.
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014
