Give her a funny birthday card, like you would to a neighbour.
The kids could give her the flowers.
This is not a year like every other. Face it. I know it's friggin' hard to take.
Maybe she's just as confused about everything as you are, maybe even more so. She's the one going through all the PEAs of the A and its aftermath. If she's ended it, then she'll be going through a grieving period like one would when any meaningful relationship ends. Extend some compassion her way.
Again very counterintuitive, but it's the way of DBing.

Last edited by PeterV2; 10/28/14 02:34 PM.
M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014