I'm so glad that I've come this far to be emotionally detached from her. She made some plans to be gone for a few days without telling me. I have no idea where she is or who she is with and I did not make a big deal of it. Normally this would have thrown me for a loop, but now it's no big deal. I know she did this on purpose to send a message, but my message will be that it's not going to affect me. When she gets back, I may ask her that in the future she let me know what's going on so I at least know what the plan for our children is.
Me:40 W:39 M:Dec 95 Split: Jul 14 W Filed: 9/16/14 Several Children (including adopted)