Jefe: Our Lord and Savior did not give us a spirit of fear. Embrace the emotion for what it should be - Hope.

It is scary because...what if it doesn't work? What if we slip?

Answer: You will be no worse off than you were 9/11/14.

I told Nitty this a while back, and it seems appropriate to your sitch: Know, KNOW DEEP IN YOUR HEART, that I would go to war to be where you are right now. With a shot. An actual chance. Do not let fear stop you from doing what you know you must to put your marriage back together.

Prayers going up, my friend. Have an excellent day.

And before I hit send...I think I got a quick message from above. You are to avoid "Why" questions with your W. That's it.


Me: 43 XW: 43
T15 M14
D21, SS15, S11, D8
BD: 8/6
EA / possible PA discovered 9/29
D final 10/20