Sorry. And I was fitting new one when she arrived around 4pm. She came in and the kids did not pay much attention She started to feed dogs and my D10 told her to stop as it was Ds job and not to be done until 5pm. W burst into tears and said they were her dogs and wanted to feed them. She then started telling me that the kids had moved on In the last three weeks since she left and that she had wasted her life raising them. She then had a go at me for spoiling them by buying them clothes that she could not afford. She then had a go that now I did everything around the house she felt that she was not needed and if only I had made these changes years ago things would be different. I told her the past was the past and it could not be changed. We all regret things we should have done differently. She carried on having ago at me and saying she wanted the house sold so she could afford a place for the kids. She carried on for about twenty mins telling me that I had not changed and I was fooling everyone into thinking I had. She finally left saying we were finished and that she had had enough. She is really struggling but I don't know what to do Our M is over but I still care as a friend Tough